Try Tucks. They are basically witchazel soaked pads and are very soothing. Use Wet Ones vs. toilet paper place a new Tucks pad there until the next visit. You just have to let it heal while not using anything ruff down there. Don't forget to drink lots of water so you don't get constipated, something we both know you don't want to happen. Wish you a speedy recovery. God Bless.